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Life Stinks (1991)
IMDB rating: 5.00
Plot: A rich businessman makes a bet he can survive on the streets of a rough Los Angeles neighborhood for 30 days completely penniless. During his stay he discovers another side of life and falls in love with with a homeless woman.
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Directors: Brooks Mel
Actors: Barty Billy,Tambor Jeffrey,Ensign Michael,Pankin Stuart,Morris Howard,De Luca Rudy,Wilson Teddy,Faison Matthew,Thompson Brian,O’Connor Raymond,Caridi Carmine,Shore Sammy,Roman Frank,Comedy,
Why am I so HORRIBLE in relationships?
I’ve never been good at relationships. I’m 29 years old. I seem to always pick the wrong woman and attempt to have long term relationships with them. I complain to my friends and family how badly I’m being treated in the relationship. But then I end up cheating on them with the woman that’s really good for me. Finally, when I break up with the woman that’s wrong for me and start a relationship with the woman who is good for me I screw up the relationship. I start not appreciating her, taking her love for granted, and just be and all around a$$hole. However, when she’s had enough of my crap she ultimately dumps me. Then I feel like crap. It’s like I purposely choose the wrong woman (hoodrats and skanks etc) and try to have long term relationship with them. I put my heart and soul into the relationship. However, when a good woman comes along (career orientated, fun loving independent, beautiful inside and out) I screw it up. I want to stop this pattern. I’m living with a woman with 5 children by 4 different men. She lives in the projects. She always has a stank attitude. We do nothing but argue all the time. I moved in with after a month of knowing her since I didn’t have enough resources to find a place to stay. Plus my family doesn’t want anything to do with me. I don’t have a car as well. I fell on hard times due to the economy. Anyway, I’ve been cheating on her for the past 8 months with this beautiful woman. I love her so much. I want to be a better man because of her. Not only is she beautiful but she’s smart, extremely funny, caring (she does volunteer work), and with a touch of sassiness. When I’m around her I never want to leave her side. I would love to stay with her, but unfortunately she staying with her sick grandmother. She also said she wouldn’t want me to live with her until I got my sh!t together. I don’t want to break this woman’s heart because I really do love her. But what can I do?
ok i admit im lazy and i didnt read all that shit.
but my advice is that maybe your looking for "looks" and your not seeing beyond that..
look for cute personailtrys and women that dont rely on men.
John | Feb 09, 2010
I honestly can’t figure out what the problem might be. I read through that whole thing twice and you sound like a really great guy. You deserve someone really wonderful in your life. I hope you find it soon. Good luck to you. Trust me you’re going to need it.
azreale | Feb 09, 2010
you arent accepting the relationship and giving real love a chance…
xxLiVEsmileLAUGHxx | Feb 09, 2010
Well then get your sh%t AND act together boo. Stop cheating, find a job, get your car and your own place. Stop movin in with women.
Cafe au Lait | Feb 09, 2010
because u r too complicated than normal
Gtrgtrvtr | Feb 09, 2010
Switch the roles and always remind yourself what you have been around and what you want. Possible even write it down and put it somewhere.
shyguy | Feb 09, 2010
sigh. . .this is sad bcuz my bf is like that with me..please please learn to treat a good woman hw she deserves to be treated and a skank like a skank so that she doesnt get any ideas. dont miss out on the right person for fxcking around with the wrong one…
Hi Everyone!
muaa! | Feb 09, 2010
dudeeeee you probably never look at this womans backround if she has 5!!!!!!kids then that should be an instant turnoff i understand you needed a place to stay but you should really fix the relationship with your parent(s) and ask to move in with them and go from there so your not stuck with 5 kids that arent yours
Pyrax | Feb 09, 2010
I don’t know…maybe break up with the women you are with right know, and start seeing the one you love. It’s not fair to either of the two ladies that you are cheating on them. Just be sure that this time, appreciate her. Tell her everyday how beautiful she looks, or what she does that makes you love her. Make her feel special and maybe you won’t screw up this time.
TwilightExpert | Feb 09, 2010
Hey buddy. You need to deal with your issues.
Here in the UK you can get therapy free through your GP…not sure how it works in the US.
NUMBER ONE issue you need to deal with is your image and perception of yourself.
Work everyday on maintaining a positive outlook on yourself and your life, achieving the things you want, and making yourself happy, whilst being a positive influence on the world.
One quick tip I can give you is to start every day and end everyday by not repeating the story above…but instead by changing this story to a positive version. Make it 3 or 4 sentences long. A quick example could be "I am great in relationships because I am a great person. I attract the right kind of woman and when she arrives, I am faithful and work hard to make it work. I am successful and happy and have everything together"
Anytime you try and think of the stuff you mentioned in the question above, try telling yourself that story I just wrote…remember your mind can’t tell the difference between imagination and reality so make the "story" as real as you can be really imagining what it would be like to build that life, and it’ll slowly start to happen!
arakrazy | Feb 09, 2010
You have to get help, by a therapist.
You have to understand why you always screw things up, I’m sure it has something to do with you family, childhood, education and the way you perceive yourself…
Try to understand.. do not look for a clue in the outter world.. the answer to your question in within you. You have to know yourself better before getting involved because you will probably do this pattern over and over if you don’t get to know yourself better.
Good luck
Azucar | Feb 09, 2010
I would love to cuss you out becos you’ve been an asshole and you need to stop doing that but I ain’t. Your family abandoned you when you needed them the most and when you meet a good woman, you treat her because you’ve expected to leave you (like your family did) also because you feel you didn’t deserve good things in life but you DO. I believe that you are a good deep down and you need to change for yourself, not becos of her otherwise, if things don’t go well with your good woman, you’ll be back in the vicious cycle again.
Counseling isn’t for everybody and it may not be your cup of tea but I would suggest you to try it. Also, try to be kind to yourself a little everyday like do something nice for yourself. Look at your current girlfriend (volunteer worker, the one you love?) what have you learnt from her? Whatever you’ve learnt from her, do the same thing for yourself. Try to get a job, any job, that would raise your self esteem up. Get rid of the skank as you’ve called her!
I wish you every happiness, I really do.
MaryMary | Feb 09, 2010
well to start with.. you say you want to be a better person yet your still cheating on this lovely woman. you could start shaping up by first, dumping the tramp your living with.. but she is your meal ticket.. is tht rite? hmm.. so basically its a tough decision.. either have a place to stay and be unhappy.. or be with the woman you love and be homeless(: unless she lets you live with her or u find somewhere else.. if that is the case, well than you know watt to pick..
next.. the root of the problem.. all men at 30ish hopefully would want to tie down and start a relationship with someone they want to be with for the rest of their lives. but you are going the opposite direction. the good thing is that you actually KNOW your doing something wrong, and what it is. all you have to do is think about this.. "is it worth dumping this beautiful, wonderful, all around terrific girl that i may be able to spend the rest of my life with?" … think about it. make the right choice.
i hope this helps..
btw.. im only 14.. and i think anyone would agree i answered this question quite.. maturely and better than most adults would have. so take it from a teenager that this problem is completely fixable. loll..
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index? qid=20100209172959AAMXltM
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